When it’s impossible to agree, and emotions get out of control, try writing letters to each other. Express in them everything that worries you - irritation, discontent, resentment, regret and love. Putting negative emotions on paper is a great way to look at them from the outside and realize all the negativity that you give to each other. Spilling thoughts on paper, you will become calmer and more reasonable. Be sure to write words of gratitude and love, describe positive emotions, because you are writing to your loved one. And at the end, try to write what answer you would like to receive from your other half.
Often the stress of preparation is due to the fact that you have taken on too many tasks. If necessary, find more contractors. Ask friends or family for help. If you are worried that someone might not create what you have pictured in your head, write down your wishes in detail and explain as best as possible any complicated areas. And remember that everything can be changed and adjusted. Don't take everything on yourself.